About
True Connection
Dating & Relationship Coaching in Asheville
Dating can feel confusing and exhausting, especially when patterns keep repeating or emotional connection feels out of reach.
Amber Lavin is a relationship coach specializing in helping conscious singles break free from unfulfilling cycles and attract secure, authentic love through mindfulness, embodiment, and authentic communication.
You’ve done the work.
Therapy, journaling, healing…
So why does dating still feel so frustrating?
You’re emotionally self-aware. You’ve read the books. You’re not here for casual flings or fixing another avoidant partner. When it comes to love, you keep finding yourself stuck—attracting partners who can’t meet you, or not finding any at all. You want connection, not confusion. Depth, not drama.
If this sounds familiar, you’re in the right place.
Dating With Depth Is Possible
Intentional Dating
Learn how to date with clarity, emotional honesty, and a secure mindset.
Embodiment & Presence
Reconnect with your body’s wisdom and shift out of anxious or avoidant patterns.
Authentic Self-Expression
Show up as your full self and attract relationships that truly align
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Support for Every Stage of the Journey
True Connection Options
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Englighting events such as singles events, women’s circles and support groups and meditation classes
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Single Session – $120: A focused breakthrough session to shift your dating energy.
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4-Week Package: Build emotional clarity, upgrade your dating habits, and move with intention.
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3-Month Mentorship: Deep transformation for lasting relational change.
Qualifications & Professional Background
My approach to relationship coaching combines professional training with years of experience supporting people in creating healthier, more authentic connections. Rather than relying on one method, I integrate evidence-based practices, mindfulness, embodiment, and compassionate communication to help clients build secure relationships with themselves and others.
Education & Professional Experience
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Background in Education & Social Services
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Relationship & Dating Coach
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Workshop Facilitator
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Support Group Facilitator
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Founder of Mindful Mix & Mingle, a community that creates intentional opportunities for authentic connection
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Facilitator of attachment based support group
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Facilitator of speed dating events designed to help people connect with greater presence and intention
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Professional Training
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Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) Training
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Motivational Interviewing Training
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Attachment Theory Training
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Embodiment Training
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200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher (RYT-200) Training
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My Approach
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My work is rooted in the understanding that lasting change happens through both insight and lived experience. I draw from mindfulness, attachment theory, somatic awareness, and compassionate communication to help clients move from old relationship patterns toward greater security, authenticity, and connection.
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Whether I'm working one-on-one with coaching clients, leading workshops, facilitating support groups, or creating mindful dating experiences, my goal is to help people feel more grounded, connected, and confident in building healthy, lasting relationships.